Pessimism Make You Sufferings

Pessimism is the natural inclination to look at things with a negative perspective. As the old saying goes: the glass isn't half full, it's half empty. For most, such an outlook on life has significant side effects. The effects of pessimism and negativity are discussed in this article.

Effects of Pessimism on Behavior
The direct effects of pessimism are related to your behavior. Having negative thoughts naturally causes you to act differently than if you have a positive attitude. Some behavioral effects of pessimism include:

Complain frequently
Lose hope in the future
Feel a lack of control
Avoid challenges because you expect failure
Put down new ideas
Resist change
Effects of Pessimism on Self
Ultimately, the behavioral effects of pessimism will compound and take their toll on your emotional health. Oftentimes, negativity results in chronic depression and a general feeling of self-doubt. Other emotional effects associated with negativity include:


Feeling of being alone or isolated
Devaluing yourself
Feeling useless
Constantly blaming others for betraying or cheating you
Finding yourself frequently overwhelmed or defenseless
Using self-pity
Social Effects of Pessimism
Oftentimes, depression and emotional health are further exacerbated by how others react to negativity. Negative people are frequently perceived as "wet blankets" and may be avoided. If this is the case, it is important to understand that people are not rejecting you or your personality, but rather your outlook on life. As such, you shouldn't displace your anger or negativity onto others. Rather, it is recommended that you focus your efforts on reducing the negativity in your life. When this is done, your natural personality will shine through and it will be easier for others to see all the reasons why they want to be around you.

How to Stop Pessimistic Thinking
The first step toward eliminating negativity in your life is to admit that it is an ineffective behavior. Once you have the desire to change the behavior, the next step is to become more aware of it. This can be done initially by discussing your pessimistic behavior with friends, family members and coworkers. If you desire, a professional therapist or psychologist may also be helpful.

Through conversations with others and by becoming more self-aware of your pessimistic actions, you can then take conscious steps to eliminate them. Negativity and pessimism are typically a result of irrational thinking. If this stems from depression, it will likely be necessary to treat the larger disorder.